HELP I NEED TO BE TIDY?

well you don't have to start by cleaning the whole house, but just sort it all out little by little. and when you're doing that, it might be easy for you if you sort the things out into a 'need to keep' pile and a 'don't need to keep' pile as you may very well find things that were there since ages ago! watch tv, or listen to music or something while you're doing it, and take a break if you need to. and most importantly, keep the house tidy by putting things away as soon as you finish using them etc. etc. because then you wouldn't have to do much for spring cleaning! i don't know how old your kids are, but maybe you can get them to help too, and talk to them while you're doing it and get to know them more. hope this helps.